Jan. 12th, 2022
The problem with people today is their selfish. It’s all about them. If you think about it, every one is always saying ” What about me”. I do it sometimes too.
That’s mostly when I’m depressed and not thinking of anyone but me . There are people out there that just don’t care for others. They might care, but they don’t show it.
My nephew is one of those people. He was living with his mom, his whole family was. A wife and 3 kids. My sister raised the one little boy. His mom would wait until my sister got home from work in the mornings, and give her the baby and go back to bed. She handed the baby over to her to take care of . So she could sleep !
They lived with them for 5 years and my sister and her husband always had the one boy. The other kids were a baby and a 10 year old girl. But everywhere they went they had this child. Because the mom and dad didn’t want to be parents to him.
After 5 years they finally decided that they wanted to set rules for this boy. My sister didn’t have a problem with it, but all these parents ever did was cuss and yell at the kids. I mean the father especially would really yell loud at this boy , and cuss him. A little boy! Who does that?
Well needless to say they never really got along in the house. The son thought he should be the boss over everything. But that’s not how it should go when you live with someone.. This went on and on for A very long time. .Finally my sister and her husband had , had enough. They told them they should leave and get a place of their own. Instead of just leaving like adults, they flew into a Frenzy and the boys wife started hitting my sister. Well that didn’t go over to well. My sister stopped her by grabbing her hands, and said you won’t hit me anymore.
So because of these selfish people, my sister and her husband can no longer see the kids. My nephew is a fool. He won’t even let his own mom see the kids. He’s doing this out of spite , because they told them to move. See, my nephew had it made there. My sister would work , then come home every morning to a sink full of dirty dishes. My nephew’s wife never helped in the house at all, and didn’t even work. Has does that grab you ?
My nephew worked, but he still didn’t help in the house. All he did was complain how the house was a dump. I’ve never seen the like. What kid doesn’t respect their parents while living under their roof ? I sure respected my parents. We weren’t raised like that. I told my sister a long time ago , that she should make the kids leave so they could have peace in that house.
She wouldn’t listen to me, I talk for no reason. She said she kept praying about it, but she wasn’t getting answers. Well the answer was to make them get out and stand on their on two feet. They finally got out , but now her son won’t let her see the grand children. I’m sorry that happened, but its for the best that they found their own home.
Those kids were screwing everything up. I’m glad my sister and her husband finally took a stand with them. Like I said in the beginning, all they cared about were themselves. They didn’t care how it was effecting the kids or my sister and her husband, as long as they got to spend their money the way they wanted to, and to have a live in maid, like my sister.
My nephew is a nut case and so is his wife. They both need professional help with there attitudes . My nephew’s wife is on Prozac, and he should be on something for his issues. But he will probably never get the help he needs. They are not good parents. All they do is yell at and cuss their kids. It’s ashame the kids can’t move out. But they’re to little. I can’t stand my nephew. I just don’t have anything to do with either one of them..I don’t want to see them yell and scream at those children.
Maybe someday they will get a clue, on how to be good people. But right now , they are selfish and stupid.
I will write later !!!