Sept. 6th,2021.
It is hard for two families to live together. My daughter lived with me and we argued a lot. Her boyfriend was here, and her daughter. No matter what we did , it was hard on all of us. No matter how much I loved them ,it wasn’t enough.
I know some people going through the very same things as I did. But it is much worse than my situation. The kids practically run the house of these people. The grand kids are there too. The problem is that they love those grand kids so much ,that it makes it hard for them to think of their kids moving out. Even though that’s what they need to do.
These kids don’t want to pay rent or anything. His wife just sits there all day doing nothing. Not even helping in the house. The son wants to watch what ever he wants no matter what anyone else says. He complains If the lady of the house has a show on she likes . He always smarts off about it. All they want to do is yell at the kids all the time. They wouldn’t even pay attention to their first boy, now all they have to say is how grandma and grandpa has spoiled him. Well you can’t spoil a child if you’re involved in their life. So if he is spoiled it’s your fault for not taking interest in him.
Grow up and get a life of your own, and leave mom and dad alone. Find a place to move and go. Your family needs to be on it’s own. Don’t blame mom and dad for your mistakes of staying with them for a long time. Get out a make a home for yourself. Stop relying on mom and dad.
Don’t use the kids to threaten your parents with either. That is immature , and it’s not fair to the kids or your parents. Move out with dignity and love. Let your parents see the kids , be grown ups , not people younger than your kids.
If two families could get along that would be great. But they can’t. Everyone should have their own life to live and live it in your house.
I will write later!!!
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